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Structure at Home for Your Children

Children thrive on structure and routine. They feel more secure and confident when they know what to expect. A System helps children develop self-discipline, responsibility, and independence. It also reduces stress and conflict in the family.

But what does structure mean at home? It does not mean rigid schedules or strict rules that leave no room for flexibility or fun. It means creating a consistent and predictable environment that supports children’s physical, emotional, and social needs. Here is how to establish structure at home for your children.

Daily Routines

Establish a regular daily routine. Have a set time for waking up, eating meals, doing homework, playing, and going to bed. Try to stick to the pattern as much as possible, but be flexible when necessary. For example, you can adjust the bedtime depending on the day’s activities or your child’s mood.

Reasonable Expectations

Create clear and reasonable expectations and rules. Explain to your children what you expect from them and why. For example, you can say, “You need to brush your teeth every morning and night because it keeps your teeth healthy and prevents cavities.” Make sure the rules are age-appropriate and consistent. For example, don’t allow your child to watch TV on weekdays but not on weekends.

Feedback and Consequences

Provide positive feedback and consequences. Give your children praise when they follow the rules and meet your expectations. For example, you can say, “I’m proud of you for finishing your homework before dinner.” Also, have transparent and fair consequences for when they break the rules or fail to meet your expectations. For example, you can say, “If you don’t clean up your toys, you won’t be able to play with them tomorrow.” Ensure the consequences are related to the behavior and not too harsh or lenient.

Get Involved

Involve your children in decision-making and problem-solving. Give your children some choices and input in their daily activities and routines. For example, you can let them choose what to wear, what to eat for breakfast, or what game to play. Allowing input helps them feel more in control and motivated. Also, please encourage your children to come up with solutions when they face challenges or conflicts. Help them develop critical thinking and communication skills. For example, ask them, “How can we ensure everyone gets a turn on the swing?” 

Spend Time Together

Have fun and relax together. Structure does not mean tedious or stressful. It means balancing work and play, order and chaos, stability and change. Make sure you have time daily to enjoy each other’s company and have fun. For example, you can read a book, play board games, or go for a walk. Also, allow some room for spontaneity and creativity. For example, you can surprise your children with a picnic in the park, let them make a mess with paint or clay, or join them in a pillow fight.

Benefits for the Whole Family

Structure at home is not only beneficial for children but also for parents. It helps you manage your time and energy, reduce stress and frustration, and create a more harmonious and happy family life. Structure at home means an easier adjustment to life at daycare.

Sources– Feist, T. (2015). Doing well by doing good. Journal of Property Management, 80(4), 7.


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